'I chose to love you in silence, for in silence I found no rejection. I chose to love you in my dreams, for in my dreams you'll just be mine.'
Yes that's what exactly a crush is and it hurts saying that this is the most underrated term.
This might sound a bit stupid but yeah crushes are more important and tend to have a better story than love.
This is because you any which ways don’t find love. If you love someone they don’t, if they do you don’t. It’s very difficult to find an equilibrium where both love each other.
Crushes are sweet, there’s no pressure of she/he liking you it’s just you and you’re aware of it.
It’s a sweet relation going on in your mind where she/he’s yours. There’s no competition because It’s like your happiness is in your hand unlike people in relation. You don't need him/her to complete your feelings for her
You don’t need to take extra efforts to impress that person or be with that person, live according to that person.
Even if you see him/her once you’re day is made and if that person smiles trust me you can probably spend 2 days thinking about it.
Small things give you happiness and memories.
Adjusting your time to see him/her, going to the same place for coffee at the same time where that person comes.
Or probably seeing him/her when through the window, trying to be the mischievous one so that she notices or probably teasing her with some other person because tumhe toh dude lagna hai.
Most of us hate waiting, but trust me waiting for your crush is the best thing.
Probably we all might have experienced it at some point in time maybe in school, college, classes or office.
Remember continuously Looking at the door or window waiting for her, well the weirdest part is the wait ends with a smile on your face.
Also, we try hard to be close to our crush.
Be it sitting next to her in class or probably going in the same area where she is.
And trust me if we’ve had good friends we exactly knew where our crush was.
The longest conversation which we might have held would be a ‘Hi’, ‘All the best’, ‘Congrats’ but even while doing this we might be blushing.
But for our best friends, she was already their ‘bhabhi’
There’s a lot of innocence when it comes to crushes
And the best part about crushes is that they are usually someone who we ourselves know can never be ours.
But since the entire story is just ours we never lose ‘Apne kahani ke hero to hum hi hai..haar thodi sakte hai’
But then there are a few real-life heroes who actually start dating their crush. These people leave us with two important thoughts.
- Yeh isse patti kaise?
- Isse acha toh main hu, try kar leta toh mujhse bhi hojata.
